I admit to trying various avenues to meeting people. I've gone on blind dates, set-ups with friends of friends, and have been through a couple reputable dating websites. NONE of which have been very successful. One guy I ever met through a dating site turned out to be a psychopath who I had to get a restraining order against after he threatened myself and my family. (Also had to go to small claims court and fight him on a violating said orders). *sigh. Another guy I dated for almost a year, but after 6 months the sizzle had fizzled. He was too fixated on his career and technological toys (computers, video games, ipad, etc.)
I guess what I don't understand is semi-complex: either I'm too picky and complicated for men, or I just don't pick the right ones. Maybe it's a mix of both. {insert picture of Carrie Bradshaw and all of her boyfriends before Big, minus the blond hair and fuzzy sweater}. I won't stop looking for Mr. Right, I just wish I wasn't consistently finding what many call "Mr. Right Now."
What other options are out there for an independent woman who's close to thirty {gasp} and has an idea of where her life is going? Bars are not the place to go - ladies night by myself, no thank you - I've learned walking up to a guy isn't always kosher - so what to do next... ideas welcome.
Day 14 of All Good Things: Being able to laugh at myself as I walk through a very crowded bookstore, shuffling my right foot along the floor because my flip flop broke. Paid for books and mags then hopped to my car through a nasty parking lot behind the Cheesecake Factory. {imagine rotting garbage stench in the hot air and particles on the pavement} At least there was another pair of flip flops in my trunk and a shower at home!
The book store is a good place to meet guys! Especially in the cafe area. I also like art events. They welcome discussion about the art so the ice breaker is done for you. But then do you like guys who read books and attend art events? They are not always many to be found...
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